Before I get used to this new month new beginnings hullabaloo, I have to appreciate, share memories and lessons that will be imprinted in my heart and probably shape the rest of my years.
Now I’m going to show a side of me I haven’t shown before. I’m going to be fierce. –La’Porsha Renae
Remember that you don’tchoose love;love chooses you.
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honourable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived, and lived well.-Ralph Waldo Emerso
Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.-Mother Teresa
To enjoy the glow of good health, you must exercise.–Gene Tunney
You can’t help getting older, but you don’t have to get old – George Burns
I know what you’re thinking. Why would you ask a twenty-something for advice on women? Good question. Well I’m sure you’d trust an older, wiser, 75-year-old woman: my grandma. And she always says, “Ask Fae” (That’s me.) So maybe you should.
I’m not exactly who you’d expect to turn to, considering I am the youngest in my family, but never underestimate the youngest. They’re always watching…
Observing my older siblings, friends, and even parents make decisions everyday was like watching a lot of Reality TV – not because their behavior was so over-dramatic or ridiculous, but because I watched others’ lives play out before mine even really began. I watched my brother bravely enter high school, and my four sisters make their choices on love and life. (yes we are a big family). I watched my parents build a successful business and my brother grow into a successful enterpreneur. And I as I watch, I have learnt a lot on parenthood not because I have children but I have watched my sisters as they raise my ten nieces and nephews.
As I said, a lot was happening to everyone around me before my life even began. I took in how they made decisions and saw it as an opportunity for me to “pick and choose” what decisions I would later make (or not make). I guess learning from others and my successes and mistakes made me into a reliable source for my family and friends – which is why my grandma has always said “Ask Fae”.
So now I’m almost 26 and I seem to be the one everyone keeps turning to for advice. I certainly don’t have all the answers, but the lessons I’ve learned (from others’ experiences as well as my own) seem to have taught me well. So ask away, my friends. I may be young, but I am also wise – according to grandma – and she’s pretty damn smart.
So ladies and gents send me your questions at wambufae@gmail.com with your name and question.lets talk.
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